Tuesday, June 19, 2012

When the scale tips...

That freshman fifteen naaaa that third year twenty. Yup, 20lbs. The dreaded moment when the doctor has to keep moving the metal bar to the right side of the scale...


This happened to me at the doctor's office last week. I mean I knew I had put on a little weight, but good Lord I had no idea that had gained nearly 20lbs. I think at that moment it hit me. I was supposed to be an example of good health, exercise and maintaining a healthy weight, yet I had completely let myself fall off. I had lost my mojo and really had a hard time getting back on the wagon. I've done all research possible, pretty much hip to all the tricks of the trade. I simply let other things get in the way of my exercising, felt that I was too busy and then too tired. I had to remind myself, my health is not a joke and working out pushing my body to its limits are not an option. Not only does working out, keep me at an ideal, healthy weight, but it also improves my moods and gives me more energy throughout the day. I admit I always have alot of things on my mind and on my plate, but balance is key. I've found the only place I can truly maintain a since of balance and good stewardship on my time and money is relying on guidance from God. 

It's hard sometimes to keep everything in perspective: work, school, more work, friends, professional endeavors,  but I've found that through prayer and daily devotional it's possible to find organization, purpose and clarity even when you find yourself overbooked. So with that being said, I'm trying reestablish some order in my life mainly regarding my workout schedule. My goal is to increase my muscle mass while decreasing the amount of flab and fat that I have. I want to be a tighter, toner healthier me! To help me on my journey I've found several resources for support, and guidance. I ran cross country and track in high school which cardio and lifting were incorporated into my daily workouts. Even then, my body wasn't exactly as toned as I wanted it to be. I recently started following a tumblr, that profiles Samantha a college student turned personal trainer that gives great tips, workouts and recipes that will put me on the right track and have me lean, mean and strong in a couple of months (Follow her, she's awesome: muffintop-less.tumblr.com). I'm trying to follow her mltc workout plan and I encourage you to do the same! Today was my first day back at the gym (again I know I'm repeating this cycle over, but this time I'm committed I promise!). I was exhausted and couldn't make it to the gym on grounds, so I settled for the one at my apartment complex. I did about 40 min on the elliptical while watching one of my fav shows and a short version of Samantha's equipment-less leg workout. I called it quits after about 3 sets because frankly my form was suffering. My experience with fitness is that if you don't have good form then stop and reevaluate what your're doing:
1. You could hurt yourself
2. Consider doing less reps and try to do it with better form
3. It's not a race. Go at a pace where you can control your movement.
Remember to breathe. Believe me I understand how frustrating it can be to have a goal in your mind, but for whatever reason you can't get the form or the number of reps you want. DO YOUR BEST!!!!PUSH YOURSELF, BUT BE SAFE!You know your body better than anyone else.
Sooo while I was struggling to do squats, I was telling myself everything I'm telling you. I remember when I could've done this workout easy, it would have hurt, but I would have never considered cutting it down. Keeping my perspective, I had  to remind myself I haven't worked out consistently in months. It's going to take some rebuilding! With that being said, I'm trying to combine all the resources and fitness tidbits I have picked up and make my own routine. I love to run and am trying to get a chapter of Black Girls RUN! (BGR!) up and going in my city. They offer great inspiration for beginner to advanced runners. My goal is to cut down my running times and definitely run more races next year, ya know push my limits. I also follow @Mankofit on Instagram and youtube. She's another amazing young woman that choose to dedicate herself to fitness, health and living to her highest potential in all aspects. On her instagram she posts workouts, recipes and inspirational quotes. My third source of info comes from pinterest. There I find workout tips, healthy recipies and inspiration to workout every day no matter how crazy my schedule maybe. Follow my boards for great tips! I ask you to join me in my journey for a healthier, stronger, better me. Remember to take care of yourself no matter time constraints. Check out BGR! Blackgirlsrun.com for a chapter in your area! If you have any fitness tips or recipes please share them with me! Challenge yourself! I'll be posting my fitness progress each week and I ask you to join me! Keep it tight!!!!

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Nappy Roots

Life sucks when you don't take your own advice. How do I know? Because I do this ALL THE TIME!
It's one of the those things that is apart of a larger growth progress in my life. Baby steps, baby steps is what I tell myself each morning and it seems it's working. Positive reinforcement is the first step to actual progress...

Step One: So I decided I need to take better care of my myself, including HAIR MAINTENANCE. I'm coming clean with you all! I'm pretty sure I've read hundreds upon thousands of blogs and articles about natural hair, yet I found myself not really taking care of it. I've been natural for almost two years and thankfully my hair has grown so fast without me actually doing much to it. Even-though, I knew all the tricks, products and etc. I've still been gun shy to actually putting my hands in my hair and getting busy! I've had countless friends detangle my hair for me, do twist-outs, styles and straighten, yet I still didn't take the opportunity to grow with my hair. So here I am beginning anew almost two years in to being natural. Let's just say I was a late bloomer lol...


I think my fear of hurting my hair or ruining my hair paralyzed me from actually being inventive. Before I decided to do the big chop I made sure I  did all of my research beforehand. There's negativity regarding African-American women's hair. This fear that you can ruin your hair or harm it. I always had this fear even when I had relaxed hair. I've learned through my natural hair journey that I can't hurt my hair by trying new things and even if I did damage it, it will always grow back! Don't be afraid to try new things!!!

I successfully twisted my hair all on my own two nights ago! I used my trusty pink spray bottle, coconut oil and olive oil (nothing fancy). My hair was pretty much dry which explains why the twists didn't turn out as tight as I wanted them to be. I hadn't thoroughly detangled my hair since February (I know I'm trifling) so it was quite the ordeal. It literally took me all day, but healthy hair is certainly worth it! Being natural is a gift and it also takes a lot of work. Some people have the misconception that being natural is much easier than having permed hair. Truth be told, it's actually alot more maintenance. I've been blessed to come this far without really damaging hair with my lack of hair maintenance. However, with the length my hair is at now, it's critical I take more interest in my own hair. I must admit I was pretty proud of myself.The twists weren't as tight as I liked, but I know I'll get better in time! For the first two days I kept them pinned up.
I finally took responsibility of my own nappy roots! If you'd like to share your own tips, favorite products or hair journey!!!